How to add the new Activex Control.
Step 1:  
In internet explorer, you will need to add aussiechat2000 to the trusted sites list.
To do this, click on internet options -> security -> Trusted Sites.
Once trusted sites is highlighted, click on Add Site. Enter http://aussiechat2000.com.au, make sure the https option is switched off.
Click OK
 
Step 2:
Again you will need to go into tools.
Click  on Internet Options -> Security -> Custom Level
Scroll thru the list of options and make sure you have "Download unsigned Activex controls" set to either enable or prompt.
Click Apply
Click OK
 
Step 3:
Now you can reload the page and the activex control will load.